You know I have tried to take this slow, I have been procrastinating over some of the issues with his book "Spare" and his behavior. These examples are not in his book but are just my way to try and explain it. So in my opinion he is not just nuts. Nuts would be saying you brought your wife flowers when in fact it was a treadmill. You got the details wrong but you still brought her something for Valentine's Day.
Effing nuts is saying you brought your wife flowers. When in fact you brought her nothing and ended up in another country with somebody else. Yet, you're still convinced you got her flowers. So, you are in an argument with her over the flowers you said you got her while she is looking at the pictures of you. In social media posts, you posted online on Valentine's Day with somebody else in another country. While holding the bill for the plane tickets that you charged to her credit card. Effing nuts.